I think we all have to piece together what 180 is like for our different situations. There are times when I'm pulled to be emotional support and I will provide....main reason is this is one of the reasons I'm in this sitch for not providing it. I can't turn dark or not be there when I thought I had been there, but according to the Mrs. was far from it.
Even though we've calculated child and spousal support she's come to me concerned over how she's going to make it paycheck to paycheck (even asked me and my ability to make it too). For this one, I'm completely dark no response because this is what she asked for and she needs to deal.
Sounds like you're slowly but surely making progress which is awesome, but it's also so hard to hold the line and not get excited. This past weekend there were a few things she did that she hasn't done in months, but I just have to smile, enjoy them and move on. So hard to hold the line, but don't want to dip my toe in that desperate pool again!!!!
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
