I don't post here much because generally X is only a small part of my life now. But it can be helpful to following MLC stories over the years.

X slumps around. He looks very unhappy and it shows to others, who have commented. His medical situation is still bad.

He is somewhat better with D. He disappointed her badly a few months ago by not showing up for her event but did manage to show for other things lately.

We are reasonably polite to each other, but that's been pretty much it. I told him I was moving and getting married--no reaction. (Not that i want one, just observing.) He seems to have some awareness that our D has suffered, being in a broken home, but his actions are still passive and half-hearted from where I sit.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D