jp,
There are some GOOD signs here (but not to read too much into anything).

First, she agreed to have dinner w you.

Secondly, talking about random things is good- you are talking.

Third, you didn't pressure her in any way.

Fourth, friends is a good place to be right now (even though it feels like a step backwards to you).

Keep it up!

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.