Sounds good! You stand the best chance by not trying to reconcile. The more you can keep your mind off W and limit your contact the better, because you will give her space. As Chevy Chase said, "in one model of the universe, the shortest distance between two points is a straight line in the opposite direction"

Acc

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015