RT-I like the hour glass analogy. That's a new one for me.
T-I won't call OW. It will in no way help my sitch. I think the only I would call her at this point is if I H moves out & makes the steps to actually leave. At that point I would just simply let her know of the double life he is living since she has no clue. She'll find out sooner or later & he'll have to deal with it then. I feel the exact same way as far as her 'winning'. I never looked at it that way before, but now realize that's why I'm so wrapped up in wanting her to know. I feel like that would immediately push her away since I know how she feels in regards to H & I having any kind of physical relationship. She even believes that we sleep in separate beds. I'm sure her knowing that I'm not even 8 weeks pregnant would royally tick her off. As far as boundaries…I'm not ready to go there just yet. He doesn't talk to her in front of me or the girls & the texting has slowed way down. He typically does this in another room. If it gets to the point where I don't think I can handle it I will address it.
My mood has been pretty good today. No interaction by text, so I'm staying in a pretty good mindset. I am getting nervous for the evening. I wonder if he will be cold like yesterday, or if there will be conversation?
M 34 H 35 D 7 D 6 M 10 T 14 Pregnant w/ boy/girl twins-due 12/2013 BD 12/15/12
