WAS Moving out date 1 May 2012

[Rockwallaby]

Hi Kaffe thank you on a couple of fronts. First leaving names in was an error so I have notified the mod to remove.

Not doing very well here am I? I felt like I was detaching but do not want to be walked over. If I buy her out of the house then I have a large attachment to this whereas she would be free to leave and move should she wish. this worries me though at moment looks unlikely that she would leave. Should I just forget about the settlement of the house and the custody arrangements and let her choose the timing of this?

I read a post this morning about WAS being unhappy and looking for happiness elsewhere, I get this and suspect that with all the freedom in the world she will not be happy. that is not for me, I am going to let go.

I am really trying to let go. I have great relationships with the children and focus on my time with the children. i am not going to be a disney dad or even compete with this behaviour, they are intelligent and will see it for what it is.

I have also been cycling 30 miles daily so starting to feel fitter 11 days into my charity challenge of 30 rides in 30 days.