Your hardly "blathering." You have a very legitimate concern. Communication is vital in the best of circumstances, let alone when your M has been blown away.
I must say though, Wolfie is the not alone in the male species when it comes to holding things in.
I'm not sure why it is, but they seem to not want to bother us with these details that make them distance, causing us to frantic.
Confronting him was a good idea Tal, especially if it's a 180 for you. It's a pattern that needs to be broken.
I'd say communication or lack of it was probably the biggest downfall of my M. We just never did it well, no matter how hard I tried to get the channel open.
Watch now to see if there is a change in his demeanor.
You made it through your bomb anniversary and things seem to be going well for the two of you. YEAH! WAY TO GO!
I think there really is life after infidelity for many, but I know what you mean when you said you'd leave him in a heartbeat if it ever happens again.
Hopefully that will never come to past for you, and the two of you will continue on your path of rebuilding.
2004 is going to be an awesome year for you! Rachael
