Well, tomorrow is the 1-year date of the bomb, or earthquake, tsunami, or whatever that was that blew my life apart in an instant. Jeannine and I share this particular "annaversary".
We survived & even thrived. I would leave Wolfie in a heartbeat if I ever have to deal with infidelity again, but I am grateful for the end-results.
So, I'd just like to take this one little moment to gloat, do a little victory dance and sing a bit of "you ain't woman enough to take my man".
I'm getting a little concerned the past few days. Wolfie seems to be distancing quite a bit from me. No initiating ML for more than 2 wks, and he's just acting....funny.
Night before last, he came to find me when he was coming home from work, and he just stood there in front of me with his head down, looking all sheepish. Every time I have caught his eye since then, I see FEAR.
I can't really attribute this behavior to the "anniversary". I and quite sure that he is oblivious to that--and even if he did remember, I don't think he'd be very affected by that.
Several times I've snuggled up and asked if something was wrong or if he was ok. I get the same flash of fear look, but he covers it up quickly.
I don't know quite what to do. His behavior is making me feel anxious. In the past, I would have just let it go and figured he would tell me if something was bothering him. I hated feeling like I had to drag things out of him--or even snoop--just to figure out what the heck was going on!
Now I feel like I do need pull things out of him so that we are at least on the same page. I wish I knew how when he just keeps saying he's "FINE" but "fine" has an edge to it that is like, "no I'm not fine and you should know why and if you don't, that upsets me even more!"
Do any of the guys around here have any suggestions for how to deal with this passive/agressive stuff in a man?
