[quote][Another question: the longer he does not initiate contact, the more peaceful I become, does it work for the MLCer that way, too/quote]

Hi portia.

I can't answer this question (sure it won't be long before I ask the same myself). But I did want to say how fantastic you are doing. You sound like you are coping well and I find your strength very inspiring.

Take care!

Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.