I will make sure these things are not said in a controlling manner. I know he has to walk this journey on her own. I just want to make it clear to her that I don't want to discuss these things at this time, that's all. I will report back later on tonight. Thanks for everyone's advice!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it