Thanks Mach.
No, I don't see it at all. I think I am just as confused as wife at this point. Lol

The way you worded it doesn't sound controlling at all. It seems to be putting focus on me and why I don't wont to discuss anything instead of "demanding why we shouldn't talk"

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it