When your wife wants to talk she will come to you to talk- drop it, make no mention of it.....If she wants ANYTHING she needs to come to you.
My experience with a MC was horrific . W twisted everything he said to fit what she wanted (She thought he said we werent compatible- thats all she needed to hear). I now use him for guidance on co-parenting.
What are your long term and short term goals for yourself? YOU FIX YOU!
Your wife needs to go on her path with no interference from you. The ONLY bond or relationship build you can work on, at this time ,is the one with your little girl.
Somebody needs to be awesome for her- It has to be you!
Fix YOURSELF!
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
