Please sit quietly and be patient. He will contact you when he realizes that you are not folding. It's a waiting game and he wants you to fold because he thinks he's got the power to make you beg for his attention. Be patient and wait a while longer. He needs to feel his loss.
Thank you. I know that you are not a fortune teller, the reason I was hoping for a timeline was simply to set goals for me. Since setting the "six week" goal - not to wait to contact him but as a goal for me not to contact him - I have felt more peaceful and more focussed on other things. I was hoping that you might help me set that next goal, assuming he does not contact me within that time frame. NOT as a drop date for contacting him, but just a "check in" date. I have never had this kind of experience before so I am not sure what is even realistic.
I sometimes suspect that at a certain point, I will not need the "goals". He has clearly moved into Wonderland without me.
Another question: the longer he does not initiate contact, the more peaceful I become, does it work for the MLCer that way, too? Or do are thier minds just so different that this time away from the LBS does not bring them peace?
