Because I don't want to talk about it. What's the point? Bottom line is that she is in a relationship with someone else. I don't need to hear why she was lying. She doesn't need to know how i found out. Until we are working on the marriage why does it matter
Hey cbt, I agree now thanks to all the posting on your thread that it would not be helpful to talk about it, I learned something ;-)
That said, I think Mach1 is asking you to think about what words you choose if you end up needed to use them.
I think I want to tape record myself now and listen to everything I say, wow I really want to learn how to recognize my controlling words...
(Thanks again Mach1)
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
