Went on a walk last night and W talked about the usual (city she wants us to move to) and that she wants to send D9 to a day soccer camp in that city which she, of course, would have to go to that town for a week in July (like it is altruistic). I tried to affirm, but this is such a rediculous idea and I can't believe she is seriously suggesting it.
Also on W we talked about my therapy session, which was only individual because she messed up the scheduling. I told her about the positive parts, which were several, but not the tat-boy anxiety or anything negative. She said "we must be his easiest patients." Um, ok...
This morning, got a call from therapy office and they have a cancellation Thursday 4-5. I jumped at the chance and texted W:
Me - Dr. XYZ office called and they had a cancellations for this Thursday at 4. W - I have girls night out Thursday. Me - We'll be done at 5, what time is GNO? W - 5 W - Plus I'm driving 5 kids to movie. Me - Can I drop you off or could you be a few minutes late? Because we missed last week and were going to miss this week, I took it and think it is important for us to go, don't you? Me - Didn't see the movie text. What time is the movie.
No response for 4 hours since. This to me was really unsettling and my read was that she doesn't care that much about counseling. She is a logistical genious when she wants to be, plus not getting a response. I haven't texted or called her since, any advice?
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"