Went on a walk last night and W talked about the usual (city she wants us to move to) and that she wants to send D9 to a day soccer camp in that city which she, of course, would have to go to that town for a week in July (like it is altruistic). I tried to affirm, but this is such a rediculous idea and I can't believe she is seriously suggesting it.

Also on W we talked about my therapy session, which was only individual because she messed up the scheduling. I told her about the positive parts, which were several, but not the tat-boy anxiety or anything negative. She said "we must be his easiest patients." Um, ok...

This morning, got a call from therapy office and they have a cancellation Thursday 4-5. I jumped at the chance and texted W:

Me - Dr. XYZ office called and they had a cancellations for this Thursday at 4.
W - I have girls night out Thursday.
Me - We'll be done at 5, what time is GNO?
W - 5
W - Plus I'm driving 5 kids to movie.
Me - Can I drop you off or could you be a few minutes late? Because we missed last week and were going to miss this week, I took it and think it is important for us to go, don't you?
Me - Didn't see the movie text. What time is the movie.

No response for 4 hours since. This to me was really unsettling and my read was that she doesn't care that much about counseling. She is a logistical genious when she wants to be, plus not getting a response. I haven't texted or called her since, any advice?

CB


Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"