I had another call today - asking for an invitation to my eldest son's birthday party. Hmmmm I almost fell over. I am at a loss. And a long and confusing conversation about how he didn't mean to hurt my dil. I had to explain as if to a rather dim child, that his actions had been incredibly hurtful to her, and that was what mattered. He finally appeared to get it, but he is odd, and I am not sure I have the energy for all of this oddness.
i think he has got it into his head that I am involved with someone. I had got used to life without him and I will tell you the emerging MLCer is still a pretty peculiar human being.
What do our marriage vows really mean? although divorce is a piece of paper it does change things. This poses some hard questions.
And yes, calgy, my xh was a very very mean man. He certainly isn't firing on all cylinders right now either
