Hey PS. Checking in. You asked yourself why the email bothered you so much... JP was right, IMO it was fair.
But... If I try to put myself in your shoes and the context of being the parent that's trying to hold it all together, I think I can understand why your gut reaction was emotional.
How are you feeling about your W taking a trip? Since she began with that, could this have influenced the way you interpreted the rest of the email?
Great control in your email response!
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13