Brother...everything I read seems like positive news. Just dont back track and focus you and the children. I am a noob here, but I concur that over reacting and assuming things are even remotely normal yet is a misjudgement.
My best of luck to you...I feel after reading your thread that you have crossed major hurtles and have much to be positive about with the newest revelations. The tricky part is to not get too confident in them until more time and concrete responses on her part continue.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013