Confused about what I want

[BRNR]

Thanks GM,

I am not sure he heard me...but it is the first time I have thrown that truth Bomb out there, and well, I just didn't care of his reaction to it or not. He plays Super Dad all the time, but doesn't handle the kids with father gloves. No discipline, no control, no communication. My H thinks he spends "time" with his kids and he has been an outstanding father...this could be farther from the truth.

I am sorry to hear that there is no relationship with your kids and their father...my sitch is getting that way, and honestly, I am not sure how I feel about it. I never wanted that, but I believe that H isn't capable of being a father, so my boys may be better off. Just something for you to think about....