Hi TVS! It sounds like you are doing really well and hubby may be starting to second guess his actions. I like that he touched you. My W did that last weekend, but it was only because we were taking a group picture at a family event. I was thinking how I'd like to spank her and tie her to the bed! Is that bad?
Originally Posted By: TVS
He said he just wanted to thank me for everything. I said he didn't have to thank me, I was happy to do it. He said he did want to thank me, that he knew I did all the decorations and gifts and everything. That he knew S5 appreciated everything for his party.
It doesn’t matter that you didn’t feel his thanks was necessary. He did, so it’s best to graciously accept it. Failing to accept thanks or a compliment is aggravating to the one offering it. I know, because this is what my W sometimes does to me.
It does seem like you are on course and making some progress. Bust On!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
