BrightFuture, cannot offer much in the way of written support, still learning myself. Can offer you some hugs and some prayers for the future for you. All I can say is I understand the one minute angry then next what is happening. Take care.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.