X demands full custody...I'm engaged, Pt 3: Court?

[sleeper]

Yes. The C began the session with a "goal" that X and I find some say to work things out without going to court. I learned today X has begun to see the C on her own in individual sessions as well.

I thought I knew what was going on but now I'm not so sure. I do know my marriage is a major life changing event for my kids, probably the biggest since X and I divorced. DS can't remember our divorce, DD barely can. Part of me thinks I should have prepared them better for this but on the other hand there were no issues a year ago and the blended family seemed already blended.