Grizz, checking in. Saw your comment on my post -- thanks. I've been following your thread too, albeit with a hiatus these past 3 weeks. I'm sorry to hear about how your sitch is changing, but I think you should try (as hard as it is) not to worry too much about the future. June 8th is a month away and much can happen. Also, when she is away, things will be different. Be positive/happy around her, lead a good life, do your thing, and either she will start to see what she will miss, or at the very least you'll be in a better place.

BTW, when she moves out, where will you be? I think, if my W was to move out, I would be away from the house that day. I know others have helped their WAS move out, but I don't think I could do that. It's something to think about. It will be a lasting memory for both of you.

best of luck.


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