One more question...

Have any of you come across any good resources about MLC and the relationship/trigger of someone important in their life dying?

Our sitch (after 20 years together) unraveled coincidently along the same timeframe H's mom was diagnosed w cancer.

Both of us think this has A LOT to do w where we are today.

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.