On another note, seeing another L tomorrow for further clarity on my rights should H file. Just want confirmation that what other L's said is spot on (& consistent).

Still wearing my wedding ring. I figure as long as I am married I will wear my ring. I know others think differently.

Weirdly I am already thinking about what I want my next R to look like. And, I have to admit when I talk to men I do look at their wedding finger and I do wonder if they are not wearing one what their sitch is...................I know I am getting waaaay ahead of myself and I know I need to HEAL before I am ready for another R, but I do know I want a partner in life that wants to be w me- bruises and all.

Anyone ever have similar thoughts??? (Of course I fantasize that H will come around again & start flirting w me & realize OW is NOT what he wants & it is really me that he longs for deep in his heart....but I don't let myself stay in this fantasy for long.)

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.