So sorry you are hurting right now. Push your self to stay busy, out and about, with your mind off of things. Maybe you can as him to give you some times to wrap your mind around the process of going through the D...and he'll stop asking you for help w/ the steps while you can build your self back up to deal with it all. Best of luck to you, you will make it through this and be better for it.


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope