Confused about what I want

[BRNR]

Thanks for the comment AJ. Yes it was quite funny seeing things from that perspective.

As far as the advice comment, I do see your point of view, but I also see it from the stance that I mean business now. He can take it whichever way he wants, because I have told him to "do what he had to do" before, and then he sends me an email trying to bully me with a take it or leave it attitude.

I also think you were the one that said, no matter what I do or don't, he will be angry, so let him be....at least at this time I truly can see that he is really only hurting himself and looking out for himself in all this.

AJ- it took a lot of digging to stop fearing everything I say and do, wondering if it would hurt or help, and I don't regret one word of the email.

What will be, will be. And honestly I am okay with that, because I am at least doing everything I can to get what I want. If I don't get it, at least I can say I tried.

But as with all of us, nothing is over yet, and I will try to heed your advice in the future. We can't be perfect DB'ers all the time, right?

You have a great night too!