Making mistakes, Jeack, I learn the hard way!

cbtdad, you don't have to text her anything. Let her keep asking and ignore it.

Tell her you don't want to discuss it, change the subject.

Not answering her texts is okay -- she's having an affair, you owe her nothing.

Be friendly, be cordial, demonstrate what a good guy you are and how great your life is, but do it from a distance.

You can't give her enough space right now.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015