Hello. I am so glad that I found this site. I feel like I am falling head first into the unknown. My husband of 28 years just decided to not come home about 2 months ago. To say I am devastated is an understatement. I see so much of the exact things he has done(and continues to be doing) to our family that many of you are going through too. I have been doing some reading and he appears to be one the middle of a major MLC. He is not the same man I married. I am completely committed to doing what needs to be done to save our marriage. And now with this site I will have the tools. This is the hardest thing I have ever been thru but the bottom line is I still love him and I want to try and make changes even tho he has said he is done. He truly seems to be the poster child for MLC. It is so weird because some of the things I have read it is like they were written about him. I hope and pray that I am able to do what I have to do. This is just such a dark and scary place to be in.
