I found my way here, as have most of us, because the day of reckoning has descended upon me. It has been a long time coming, and we have ridden the waves for many years...but I truly believe that this time I may have lost my wife for good. When your spouse tells you they care about you, but arent "in love" with you anymore, and havent been for years. And when they completely shut down, and shut you out...I cant see any light at the end of the tunnel. I have lurked here for several days awaiting moderation...so I know that if I decide to press forward it will be a rough road ahead. Will explain everything, with full disclosure in my next post.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013
