"I Love you but love her too"....WHAT?

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Snodderly, I'm ready for the popcorn. Does that go well with a nice Chardonnay? I'll take a glass anyway!

Today is another day and I've been pretty upbeat considering the latest twist. When he came back yesterday he told me he had found a house and was going to make an offer on it. He wanted me to take a look at it because he "trusts my judgement". HA! Is that right? Then why can't he listen to me when I tell him that the OW is a needy, gold digging S!+t who will chew him up and spit him out when she's finished with him? No, I didn't tell him that but it's on the tip of my tongue at all times. Anyway, he tells me that it would be a good home to rent for some additional income in a year or so. Yep, telling me that he's giving this a year or so with the OW. The he says that he can see he and I living in it later. Talk about confused? He wants me to go look at it today when he gets off work. I took a look at the listing for it and it looks to be a nice home. Don't think I'll go see it. It's his thing and he has to make that decision.

We went out to breakfast yesterday morning and all was just as it was before the OW. He kept complimenting me on how nice I looked blah, blah, blah. Later in the day he did the same thing and again this morning when he called...all gushy and gooey. GAG ME! He seemed sincere yet I know that it was all a schmoozing to prepare me for what is to come. But hey, I'll take a compliment even if it is from a confused, depressed MLCer.


FY,

Thanks for the enouragement. It's good to know that there are others out there whose W or H are being upfront. I was worried that this wasn't all just a MLC. As odd as it sounds, I'm happy that it appears to be a MLC, it gives me a lot more hope. I think I've read a bit of your thread. I'll find it again and follow a bit more closely!

Off to find another comedy to watch, pass the popcorn please!