Moving forward with my life

[cbtdad]

Couldn't agree more Urworthy.
I am so exhausted. No sleep last night. I dropped off son about 30 mins ago.
I told her, " I know we said we were going to discuss this some more, but I'm way too tired. Can we do this another time?" SHe said yes.
I then said I have an appt with my IC at 5pm next Monday and I would like it of you joined me so we could discuss coparenting. She agreed.
Then as I was leaving she began to start crying. I just said please don't cry. I can't decide this stuff for you and you need to figure out what you want in life.
She then tried to ask me how i knew this stuff. She kept wanting to know who I heard it from. She said she feels like she can't trust anyone. And that she feels like everyone must think she is soon something wrong.
I know through snooping like I said last week on Thursday.
Do I tell her this? I really would like to start with a clean honest slate and I feel like we need to clear the slate in order to do that.