Insights from WAS vs. MLC

[Live4myDay]

Well I thought I'd get some input. Is there anything I should be doing different for WAS vs. MLC ? As you read my sitch I was going through some issues myself before my D accident. Most likely my own version of MLC but I never wanted out or left. Then when he "had enough" and after all the events that lead to our D, I realized how important the M was and our family. At that point upon bringing our D home from hospital he must have been seeing OW because at that point there was no turning back. He made his decision and that was that. He is a very black and white kinda guy!

Anyway, anyone have any thoughts or insights? Maybe not same sitch, but a little advise??