Thank you for getting back to me. Glad that everything is working out for you smile

Here are the answers
1. We have not had sex in 6 years- yes that's right. I use to always reject him because I was angry with him or because he wasn't satisfying my other needs and then 2 years ago I went to the doctor because I was feeling that something was wrong me as in I had no sexual desire. I had tests done and I was low in testerone. I went on supplements and it made a huge difference, I wanted it constantly, however my H didn't really want it. He was now rejecting me.
We have had other forms, but not intercourse

2. Yes I have offered it and he said he can't do it. He feels that having sex with me is wrong. Like he would be having it with a sister or something. He said he still finds me attractive , but can't get over that feeling that's its wrong to be with me in they way. He thinks maybe be rejected all those years has caused this. I have questioned whether he's having an affair because I have trouble understanding it, however I have not experienced what he has with the extreme rejection. Even if I try to touch him he backs off.

I feel that our case is so extreme 6 years?? That's insane. I can't even believe it when I think about it. Can this be fixed? I really want that sexual relationship with him as well as a living marriage.


H:37
W:37
M:10 years
D:7&5
Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out
H moved back 12/23/12-not going well
Retrouvaille 1/18
H moving out again 3/14