Grizz,
For me when W left it was a life saver. I could not give her the space she needed while she was at home. The night she left I dropped, I mean I was in really bad shape, I lost it emotionally. Fear set in and I felt sick, but I got through it.
For me I honestly can say W and me, WE are in a better place than if she had stayed. It made it easier to focus on me, not that I am close to where I need to be, yet it did help.

No one knows what the future holds, so don't jump ahead of yourself.

Take a day or two to let it all out, then pick yourself back up and start again on your journey.

Come here often and journal.

GAL and spend time with your D's.

You can do this. You will be ok.


M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy