Portia, Please sit quietly and be patient. He will contact you when he realizes that you are not folding. It's a waiting game and he wants you to fold because he thinks he's got the power to make you beg for his attention. Be patient and wait a while longer. He needs to feel his loss.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.