Just back from therapist. He said to keep my anxiety to myself at this point and not say anything about tat-boy. Said that either she will come out of it herself, or at some point later, I/we will have to confront it with her, but for now, we have made so much progress that it is better to keep going and focus on the process.
I told him that is exactly the advice I got on MWD's MLC board and he laughed, as he was trained by MWD.
Glad I went.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"