Just journaling...got out and did alot of GAL stuff this weekend...hiked to snorkel spot Saturday and deep sea fishing Sunday....eating fresh tuna tonight.
Awesome!
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Still stinging from the loss mentioned above.
I think it's Cadet that says "D is just a piece of paper." It doesn't really change your sitch that much. It's up to you if you want to continue waiting or not.
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Talking myself out of believing she's probably telling lies about me wrt the break-up to gain supporters. Does she have a boyfriend?
Just be the best you that you can be. Even if XW doesn't see it, everyone else will. If you concentrate on being the perfect you, then it doesn't matter what XW says about you. People will judge you based on what you do, not based on what XW says about you. This has been my attitude all along, and mutual friends and family are constantly telling me how crazy W is and how she's going to live to regret this, and they just hope that when she "comes to her senses" that it won't be too late. This despite my W having said some really nasty things to them about me. But all I showed them was calm confidence and I refused to be dragged into saying anything bad about W.
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Why did this happen? Will it happen again?
Questions the LBS will never know the answers to. Heck, even the WAS doesn't know the answers. They're almost always motivated by emotions that they don't even understand.
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Should I contact someone who knows her for a confidential chat? Who is encouraging her?
She probably has an enabler or two, that's pretty typical and is to be expected. Just understand that enablers are telling the WAS what they already want to hear, so they're not hurting your sitch. Yes it's annoying, but your XW is choosing them, not the other way around.
