Thank you T. I am going to go to therapist by myself this morning (I called when W said she has to cancel and they said I still have to pay as it is less than 24 hours notice and I should come by myself) and get his perspective on the tat-boy thing as well. He knows us both and I am concerned that this is going to stand in the way of real progress, but I hear your point on the teenager mentality and definitely see this in her.

I like the gratitude list idea. I do have a lot of things to be grateful for, especially compared to a month ago.
CB


Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"