Thanks JP! Thats the goal. I am feeling actually very good today. Its interesting. The fact that she is finally open about it seems to take off a weight. She just texted me and said that she would like to talk to me tlater today. I told her that I have no problem talking about her or our son, but I do not want to discuss "us" at this point. She said she understands and thats fine.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it