[jp787]

I called my C and got an 'emergency' session for IC in an hour. Don't really know what will come of it? I guess I'll just lay it all out there & listen.

This is great that you got in! Go and let it out!

I won't call the OW at this point, but it really ticks me off that he is trying to hide all of this from her. If H actually leaves & continues to say these things to me I do think I will let her know. If he is going to leave me & there is no chance for reconciliation for us, at that point I don't think I'll have anything to lose. I'll simply let her know that while I do still want things to workout with my H I don't think that they will & just want her to know everything he has been telling me up to this point & that I'm pregnant. I'm in a bad spot right now & just feel like if he is going to bring me down, then I'll do the same to him.

I feel like he is spinning just as much as me & sees his relationship with OW crumbling if he can't get me to terminate the pregnancy because she will have to know about it at some point. Even it's down the road & they are together & H still has our daughters in his life they will at some point tell her they have a sibling. I know all of these thoughts are wrong, but they are there & I don't know how to get them out.

Keep venting here like your doing!!! It does help. I hope telling us helps get this negative out of your head, it has got to be so painful!

Can someone get divorced if they are pregnant, or do you have to wait until the baby is born?

If you "have to know" Google it. Then let it go and focus on you for the rest of the day!

Can you play any online games at work, find a co-worker to chat with, dig into some work?

You can do this!