He is saying that he doesn't want anything to do with baby, but will not give up rights to our girls.
He's so concerned about the well being of our daughters & always having a great relationship with them. Doesn't he realize that if he disowns this baby that our girls will know that? What will that do to them mentally & emotionally? What is everyone around him & in his life going to think when they know what he has chosen? He's messed up.
You can't make him think anything, he will think and do what he will and have to live with his choices. All you can do is take care of and support your girls and yourself.
Originally Posted By: in_it
This makes me want to tell the OW so bad everything he has said to me.
I can understand your wanting to have her see his other side, I really do. I belief that she will, maybe not today or tomorrow, but in time she will.
What are your plans for today, for you??
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
