cbt, I think your doing amazing considering all that you have just been through.

I would suggest moving forward with the little contact rule you talked about and set some boundaries as acc mentioned.

I have been reading your thread AND responses as they are helping me also...

I also need to set boundaries, wow is that a tough one!!! One of my 180's is being there for my W, able to listen and not try to fix, yet it pulls me in and makes it hard for me to not focus on her. Anyways...

I think your little contact rule is a great idea.

Keep smiling, positive, enjoying that little boys of yours and GAL.

Keep moving forward!


M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy