first - good luck with the high schoolers!! If you can handle an MLCer, teens should be a cake walk.
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should I be holding out olive branches allover the place? i'm sooo bad with the strategy thing.
You should be doing what's good for Nero.
That is the only strategy you should have right now.
If you feel like picking up the phone, then do that. But keep it brief (because you know, YOU ARE SO BUSY LIVING THE DREAM YOU JUST DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME TO TALK!!)
If you feel your H is throwing you "crumbs", but you know you're entitled to the whole cake, then don't settle for those crumbs.
Hope your day went FANTASTICALLY WELL!! (And, don't worry, it'll grow back )
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
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