Gotta tell you, it's a little strange that she is planning a trip for your anniversary.
We still do family events together.
Last year W said she didn't feel like doing anything for our anniversary, but we had a groupon for an overnight B&B/ spa that was about to expire, so I suggested we use it. There was quite a bit of tension on that trip. This year's A will be better, I think. Maybe this is progress.
Part of it may be she wants to keep up appearances. Everyone will want to know what we are doing for our 30th. Plus, these trips cost us very little. We used to do them at least once a year.
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I hope I am not overstepping here. If I am, I apologize if I am. Has she gone through menopause? Can this be a part of that? Sometimes women lose interest in sex when going through it.
No, but I know she fears it's right around the corner. She's always had a low sex drive.
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As I said, she does have me scratching my head a bit.
I wish I could say the same. I'm pullin' my hair out over here!
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I also feel that you might want to think about doing something different in the future. Might need to shake things up a little, ya know?
Yeah, like #2 or #3.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
