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Thanks for keeping up azguy. I think maybe H truly is naive about the phone none is so careful about everything else. Not telling me stuff that he could easily tell me, like staying over with her a couple of weeks ago & changing his flight last Friday for a few extra hours. I mean why lie about that stuff & then talk on your phone so openly? He talks on speakerphone everytime he use the phone. I'd been asleep for a good 2 hours when I walked in on him that night.

Last night when getting in bed H said said something & I didn't really hear him. I asked him what he said. He repeated himself. He said get me out of here. I said what does that mean? He said, this house. I said why? He said I'm done. I said why? He didn't say anything. In the past I would've badgered him about his response & told him that he shouldn't make remarks like that if he wasn't ready to discuss. I just continued to watch the news. We made small talk for a few minutes after that. This man is going to make it hard for me this week, but I can do it.

No talking about anything. If he continues to make comments like that should I just move on & ignore or do I acknowledge them? I would really like a few weeks of him having no face to face contact with OW before getting into anything. When he's away from her our relationship seems to do better.