Talked to her via text and explained that I wanted her to talk to me, that I would listen, and I would go to a therapist with her too (didn't put a timeframe on that) she responded that she though maybe we could talk Thursday night. I'm going to try and not talk about us with her the whole week, lean out, and mentally prepare for the conversation n Thursday...
What did SHE say? Seems to me that YOU did all the talking (i recognize this, as this is exactly what I did... I was trying to steer/control the outcome to what I wanted. I did not hear my H say much at all!
See my point?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
