Sorry to hijack moth you're a chef? I bow to you ...maybe you can give me a couple of "beginners" recipe in my thread? Two weeks ago I tried cooking beef Wellington didnt quite looked the same as the pic
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
Sorry you are having a bad day, sweetie. We all have them. You will get through it.
Please dont text your wife, J. Leave her to figure herself out. You are giving her time and space as she asked. What a gift you are giving, that you heard her. .
Originally Posted By: jp787
Posting to others feels good, yet I have to battle with the thoughts in my mind. I think well so and so would have said it better or I didn't say that right or who am I to give adivice I am no where close to where I should be DBing for as long as I have been in my sitch.
Look at me, J. I did it! You helped me. Thank you.
As far as posting to others - we, all of us, just do the best we can. The most important thing is that you make them feel that they are heard, that someone cares enough to post, that they know they are not alone. And you do all of that.
And yes, look into food photography today. Look at your goals and pick one.
And yes, meetups is a good way to find people with similar interests.
J, you are right where you are supposed to be on this journey.
You cannot rush it, you dont want to miss any steps.
Just curious, what kind of food photography are you interested in? I am a chef and would be happy to recommend some amazing cookbooks with stunning photography.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
Stuff always gets harder before it gets easier. I have triggers too where I wanted to text H, but I went and ran instead
BTW...couch to 5k is an excellent app to get you going
It is extremely difficult for me. W wanted support Saturday night as she was having a breakdown, she called and I listened and helped the best I could. Doing that pulls me in so much and makes it so hard, yet I can not tell her no. I want to be there for her, I never was before, this is a 180 for me. So it makes it a double edge sword for me.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
...maybe you can give me a couple of "beginners" recipe in my thread? Two weeks ago I tried cooking beef Wellington didnt quite looked the same as the pic 
