Can use some advice. I have received my wife's wedding gift in the mail. I purchased her for our wedding a gift to the country music festival in Nashville. The tickets just came in and obviously we are currently separated and on the verge of divorce. I am struggling financially because of the split and I am debating on whether I should still give her the tickets since they were a gift for her originally or since we are no longer "together" and I am struggling financially, should I sell them without even notifying her that I have recieved them. She know that they were coming in around this time and the trip "was" scheduled for June.


More of the same behavior for me would be to still give her the tickets because of the type of guy I am. I feel like I should still give them to her because they were a gift to her but I also feel like if I do she will just look at it as more of the same behavior and trying to manipulate her and make her feel guilty of her decisions divorce.

Do U guys think this would be a perfect time to do a 180 and not give her the tickets. Focus on me and financial situation. I mean she did make the decision to divorce and knew our trip was coming about. So honestly, would she even care if I sold them?

Any info here would be helpful

Me 33
W 32
Married 10/13/12
WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13
Divorce filed 2/13/13
Seperated 3/1/13 till ?????????
Divorced 5/28/13