Are you financially safe enough? What if she depletes the account?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
it's Saturday...please go out tonight with a friend, or at least rent or see a comedy. Preferably a live show if you can.
Get your mind OFF her and the pain. OF course there was a knot in the stomach...welcome to the divorce diet...
but there are absolutely things you CAN do, to feel better.
This really will pass, Alan...and things will get better. I guarantee you that.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
As soon as I get mu first paycheck I should be OK, regardless of what happens with the joint account. I just need to figure out a bed for the new place.
Me:22 W:20 T: 1.5 years M: 1 year I find out about EA: late March 2013 W says she wants D: 4/8/13 I find out about PA: 4/19/13 I move out: 5/9/13 I file: 5/24/13
I got a bed off ebay at a 3rd of the price in store and delivered next day with mattress.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
found a bed on craigslist for super cheep, now I just need to get a mattress and I'll have everything I need to live in new place.
Me:22 W:20 T: 1.5 years M: 1 year I find out about EA: late March 2013 W says she wants D: 4/8/13 I find out about PA: 4/19/13 I move out: 5/9/13 I file: 5/24/13
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
You seem to keep putting one foot in front of the other, and that's KEY here.
Things have to be done, and you get that.
I'm so glad & proud that you are functioning, but things will clear up.
Please let us know how you are.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
hey, it's been a few days since I've been on here. Work seems to be going well. I've moved some things over to the new place. Still looking for a mattress and a method of transport for it to get to the new place. W likes to disappear for days at a time now. I prefer it when she is gone though. If she gets home before I fall asleep then I have trouble getting to sleep. I know that before I said I was done with M but there had always been some tiny bit of hope for it. That is pretty much gone now, I just want to get on with my life and I don't really want W in it. I have the next couple days off so I will probably be doing some packing and get a mattress figured out.
Me:22 W:20 T: 1.5 years M: 1 year I find out about EA: late March 2013 W says she wants D: 4/8/13 I find out about PA: 4/19/13 I move out: 5/9/13 I file: 5/24/13
I got a lot of stuff moved today. I wanted to get a mattress and sleep at the new place today, but there was an accident on the freeway and I couldn't get to the u-haul place before it closed. I should be able to get it tomorrow.
Me:22 W:20 T: 1.5 years M: 1 year I find out about EA: late March 2013 W says she wants D: 4/8/13 I find out about PA: 4/19/13 I move out: 5/9/13 I file: 5/24/13